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Thursday, June 9, 2016

The ExChiropractors Wife

May 10th this year we were in front of a judge and officially granted a divorce. We are both doing great!

May all of your dreams come true!

2 comments:

  1. Glad to see you have received some closure. Chiropractic almost cost me my marriage! I am a female and I even lost a child (miscarriage at 13 weeks) due to stress involved financially. I left the field 8 years ago for good and now I teach. It has been the best thing I did. I wanted to get in touch with you if you are interested so we can have more of a voice to the general public or prospective students. The Chiro schools are pushing people through and it is just highway robbery. How is the gov't allowing this? We need to collaborative with ALL the ones that feel this way and make an end to it. I would not want my worst enemy to go through what I did. I cannot tell you ONE classmate (11 years later) that is doing well. Most continue to bury their heads in the sand and continue to want to make chiropractic work. I am not willing to sit on the sideline and have this happen. Please let me know how to contact you. Here is my email- chirodoc05@gmail.com

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  2. First off I'm truly sorry for the divorce. I went through one the first 5 years of practice. Hopefully no one takes offense to what I'm about to post but it's good and bad. Some docs may pooh pooh it but too bad. I grad. in 1998 out of Logan and went straight into private practice in a coastal town of 8k with 8 Docs. That didn't bother me but it sure as hell bothered them. I heard all the negative B.S. from all of them and watched them cry rivers. I've read alot of the poor me stories here and makes me wonder if their Dads raised boys or men. The biggest problem with some of you is that you're in your head way too much spinning wheels and ruminating like cows. Get the hell out of your head and quit your whining. No one said it was going to be easy and it sure as hell wasn't for me. Struggled keeping doors open the first 5 years and had to claim bankruptcy and all of this was too much for my ex. BYW, for better for worse ladies. I went from seeing approx. 30 pts/week while during the divorce and about 1 year later seeing consistently over 100/week. First rule of thumb no matter how hard you think you have it.....,NEVER and i mean NEVER talk about your shitty personal life while treating patients. They don't give a shit and will stop seeing you period. Talk about their condition and always ask for referrals. Set yourself aside from the other chiros because you know they're crying like babies also. I went ahead and got certified in ART and Acupuncture. Exclusitivity from the other Docs is huge. We all adjust. Stop being an introvert and be the chiropractic extrovert. Now the other chiros hate me because i'm doing better than they are but i don't give a friggin shit. Let them waste their energies on hate and envy. Another good point...,don't ever think about the other guy down the road, think about what you can do to better your practice. Student loans? Boo Hoo, i to was over 200k but you all only have to pay 8% per month and then forgiven in 25 years. Quit ruminating on that and think it's nothing but another car payment or mortgage you have to pay. I'm sorry i'm not too apologetic here but guys/gals grow a pair and face your finances head on. Yes it's work and i'm open to 7 but the others are until 5, I see 20 visits during that time. Screw the M.D.s and the talk about them and the same goes with these P.T.s (doctorate). I haven't met one doctor in p.t. that can fix anything except help with post stroke victims or maybe sprain/strains wwhich i can fix quicker. There's NO competition. Insurance? Yes we've taken a hit but don't be afraid to collect decutibles up front like i do and DO NOT downgrade your services for christs sake(you're worth it) and these patients who cry poor..,well that's NOT your fault but look out the window and the majority of them drive a lexus or mercedes and then i confront them. Please get some balls here. If i can do it, I know you guys/gals can do it also. Here's one for you that went through divorces which is a cop out. My ex is now married to a loser who works at walmart making 10/hour and wants me back since i'm now doing consistently 150/week. NO WAY. Chiropractic is a great profession and you deserve to make a 6 figure income. The low self-esteem and complaining is making you fail. Get out there and do it and by no means don't let FEAR enter your mind. FEAR will make you unemployed. BTW, you do not need an EGO boosted management company. They just want your $$ also and don't thin for one seond they give a SHIT if you make it or fail. All they will do is blame you. And don't go to these gay gatherings to help with team building. I guess i'm blessed being a guy who was in special forces and will never back down. FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT MY COLLEGUES. Please, you deserve it. John

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